The men typically say, "I thought she was happy. This is very significant because many cheaters can be happy in their relationships -- but they still cheat. This brings me to reasons why women cheat. My female readers provided these reasons:. The other guy shows he cares. Vicki, I longed to be in his arms and I couldn't wait to see him," a client told me recently.
Women often tell me that the other man is complimentary. He is attentive. He goes out of his way to show he cares. He makes her feel good about being a woman. So, men, do you treat your wife as well as that other guy? This grass may look greener, but it's much harder to maintain. Sexual novelty. One reader wrote, "Ms. Vicki, I'm a cheater and I feel bad about being so deceitful to my husband.
But every sexual experience with my boyfriend is so exiting and new. Men, letting the relationship get stale kills the excitement. Women, you have to know that cheaters never really win and cheating never satisfies anyone. It will only lead to more pain. The thrill. Vicki, right before I meet with the other man in my life, my heart starts pounding out of control. I think the adrenaline rush of hooking up with him has become addictive and the excitement of wondering if I will get away with it again," a client said.
I can see how a person might be looking for something exciting, but you are looking in the wrong place. This excitement will be short-lived. How can it be exciting knowing that you are potentially ruining so many lives? All too soon, you will be singing B. King's "The Thrill Is Gone. Vicki, my husband cheated on me several times and his behavior ruined my self-esteem," wrote another reader.
Now it's my turn to give him a dose of his own medicine. It's so much fun! Men, never give your wife or girlfriend a reason to feel like she needs to get back at you. Revenge has never solved anything and has never helped anyone feel better. Modesty, and the fact it was untrue. AN instructor with the Xtreme Boot Camp fitness firm, Sayer claimed to have been a paratrooper and to have been injured in Afghanistan.
A Facebook snap appeared to show him with a huge tattoo in memory of three Paras killed in Afghanistan in He had been in the military but was in the 21 Royal Engineers from to and served just two months in Afghanistan in Hodgen talked proudly about his service career, including how he had served with the 39 Regiment Royal Artillery in the Gulf War and later in the Territorial Army with the Royal Green Jackets.
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He had no medals and served in no campaigns. Army, my older brother was in the U. Navy, and I grew up on Guam, U. Married service members can't share details of their work with their spouses, which can be frustrating to both partners.
When most spouses come home, they swap stories about their days. Military spouses can't let each other in on some of the biggest details about their jobs. For military spouses, respect for their partner's service can make the time apart more bearable. He's the best person I know. News U. Politics Joe Biden Congress Extremism. Special Projects Highline. HuffPost Personal Video Horoscopes. Follow Us. Terms Privacy Policy.
Military couples put duty first -- not their marriages. Military wives are not as likely to cheat as their deployed husbands. The military is culturally progressive when it comes to marriage. Suggest a correction. Now What?
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